Thursday 29 September 2016

Embrace the challenges!

September Stars!

During this month, as we prepare to launch our winter campaign, we have been introducing you to our SIX partners.  They are the ones who will be handing out the Beanies, scarves and duffle bags funded from your purchases on our @beanies_masato Twitter account, to the street homeless in need that they meet on outreach.

To date you have met @YorkRoadProject and @Wolveshomeless, and today we invite Darren from @onebigfamilyHTH to say a few words about what they do…

Founded in 2015, and taking its name from a song by Embrace, "One Big Family - helping the homeless" was set up to provide essential items and support to the homeless in Medway (Kent) and also in London.

We are a small group who regularly do outreach.  We have a "soup run" in Victoria every Wednesday, a regular drop in Waterloo on a Thursday and get into other areas of London as often as possible.  We are infamous for our LATE NIGHT outreaches, often not getting home until the very early hours!

Our Medway Soup Kitchen is starting Autumn 2016, and we regularly get calls to assist those in need in Medway.

The "essentials" we handout include : new pants and socks, baby wipes, soap, roll-on deodorant, gloves and hats and food.  We also supply our homeless friends with clean clothing, warm drinks and chat!! We pride ourselves on creating relationships with the folk we meet.  This then means we can potentially be of most use to them and direct them to the services they need.

Everything we do is funded by donations, we don't receive any corporate or agency assistance, so to have the support from Masato Beanies and their amazing "social media" team is both humbling and extremely welcome.


One Big Family - Help the Homeless - a perfect example of people who care, out there doing what needs doing.  No fuss, just a genuine friendly smile and a helping hand.

We enjoyed their company as our 'Partner of the month' for September.  As we gear up for October, you have raised for them £112.00 with one day to go.  And, by nominating when you have purchased your Duffle Bags, you have ensured that 20 new bags will be distributed through them to the homeless most in need.

Why the bags?  We've said it before, but on the street it is really hard to keep your few personal belongings together and safe.  A 5p carrier bag maybe, or a Bag for Life handed on to you… Our friends told us that something that was new and totally theirs, wasn't just a bag or a hat or a scarf - it was a sign that they as a person had value, that they were not invisible… that they were not worthless.  So, in some ways this campaign is important in more ways than the obvious.


If YOU would like to buy a duffle bag, with one going to One Big Family, click on the link above and scroll down.  If anything else there catches your eye, then please buy!  In September £2 from each sale goes to them.  From 1-9 Oct. the £2 will wing its way to Wolverhampton to help our friends @Wolveshomeless, who you met here a couple of days ago.

Thank you for supporting us all.  You are amazing, and we really do appreciate it.  All of us.

As always we are indebted to our wonderful friend @chunkymark 
on Twitter 
for allowing us to use his art

Monday 26 September 2016

Step back in time, if you will...

The power of music

We here at Beanies are very aware that there are many causes of homelessness.  Illness, disability, job loss, business failure, debt, to name the most obvious ones.  There is one cause, however which is always veiled in almost silence.  And yet it shouldn't be, because it is on the increase again, and because the safety net is being withdrawn strand by strand. 

The issue is Domestic Violence, or DV.  It happens to women, it happens to men, it happens to teenagers.  It happens in your town, it happens in your village, it happens in your street.  It might even be happening to your neighbour.  And yet it is hardly talked about.  Which is perhaps the reason that few people realise just how large the problem is.

If you are the victim, you often don't even realise.
"He's had a bad day" "He's been on the slosh" "She can't cope with the kids" "I shouldn't have provoked them" "Mum's new boyfriend…" You make the excuses.  You take the blame.  

And it happens again...

Step into my time machine if you will… We are going back.
Why? Because some things never change…

We are in a nice house, in an affluent neighbourhood.  Its 1975.  There's a posh new Ford Cortina in the drive, and the house is smart and clean. Dad has a good well paid job, buys the latest gadgets, drinks new fangled Carling draught lager on his way home from work, in the pub with his mates.  All is well with the world…

Its midnight and the little boy comes out from behind the sofa.  He's seen it tonight, his dad hurting his Mummy.  He can hear him punching her, he always will…
Dad's barged off to bed.  Mum's curled up against the wall.  He touches her, she flinches awake, and hugs him really close.  "it's alright baby, it's going to be alright…" and she starts to sing very softly as she rocks him…


She had put up with it for years, always thought it was her fault, always made the excuses. always accepted the flowers and the apology.  Never told anyone.  She was so ashamed. It was her fault, she wasn't good enough.  She didn't do anything right…
But tonight, after her eldest had seen, she was going to do something right.

She packed in the morning, took her kids, and left.
Stayed round her mates that night, but had to move on quick.  He would come looking for them, he owned them….

Then the Council, then the flea infested dirty room…

Then slowly, the realisation that it wasn't her fault, and that she'd done the right thing. 


There is less and less support for the vulnerable these days.  Funding cuts, Refuges closing, or fearful that they will be next for the cut.  
What happens to the abused and their bewildered kids?

Homeless isn't invisible.
Homeless isn't a choice.
Homeless isn't worthless.

…With your love light shining, every cloud has a silver lining..

Make it so.

If this affects you you can find help on Twitter:-
@llamauUK (Wales)
@SODANationWide (All hours)
@RefugeCharity (M-F 9.30-5.30)
@IDASfor100 (North Yorks)
@genderfreeDV (Bristol)
amongst others.

Blog written by Sue

Friday 23 September 2016

Friday Feeling!

Let us introduce…

Probably one of our smaller outreach teams, working their socks off in Wolverhampton.  Hello to Wolverhampton Homeless Outreach, our friends @Wolveshomeless on Twitter

We will let Becky explain…

Wolverhampton Homeless Outreach is a grassroots community group that provides support for rough sleepers in the city. It is made up of volunteers who give their time to our friends on the street. So what do we do?
Street Outreach
We chat, signpost and supply rough sleepers with day-to-day essentials. We have a designated meeting place where volunteers meet for outreach and begin the route, which takes around 2 to 3 hours.
Food and drink supplies consist of hot drinks, water, hot snacks such as pasta pots and noodles, cakes, chocolate, fruit and cereal bars. Our regular food donations come from Greggs, Homeless Direct and the incredibly generous public. We have also received donations from schools and local businesses. In addition to food and drinks, we supply rough sleepers with items such as toiletries, warm clothing and footwear, underwear, sleeping bags, foil blankets and tents.
An important part of outreach is building trusting relationships with individuals and lending a listening ear. Often homeless people feel invisible, so a chat is enjoyable. It also means we can begin to help them as they begin to talk to us about their situations. We encourage rough sleepers to access local services that may benefit them in their individual circumstances. When our volunteers can, we also offer help in getting people to a variety of places for appointments and help with filing in forms.

Our evening teams go out 5 nights a week, 52 weeks of the year and our daytime outreach runs weekly.

Deposit Assistance
If for whatever reason a person who is currently homeless has been refused assistance for help with a deposit to secure accommodation, we can help. We do not believe in hand-outs but a hand-up, so we assist people with the understanding that the money they borrow is paid back once they are up on their feet. We will never ask for anything more than the original amount to be repaid.
Goods and Items for a New Home
When a person moves off the street into accommodation, more often than not they will have little more than the clothes on their backs and a few personal belongings. We can help them get off to a good start in their new home by either loaning or purchasing furniture, household appliances or other necessary items for them.


So much going on, and every time you buy in our winter campaign, and chose them in notes, you know that your kind thought will be much appreciated!

Currently it is possible to order your Duffle bag, and instruct us to send the other to @Wolveshomeless.  So far they have TWO from their Twitter friends.  Follow this link and scroll down to the duffle bags!!


Winter campaign starts in October




Thursday 22 September 2016

Thursday Matters!

Lets talk about stuff...

We like to keep it real here... Real people give us their tweets and images.  Real people send us their poems and share images.  real people tell us their stories.  

So may we introduce you to our first Guest Blogger!  Based in the North, Charlotte has kindly agreed to let us have a taste of her life.

Hello there readers of the Beanies Blog.
My name is Charlotte and this is my story.
I am a VIP (Visually Impaired Person) This means my eyes don't work. But they think I may actually be blind. I am 21. I was in a care placement for vulnerable adults. Then I went to uni.
Since I was 18 I have not had a permanent address. On average I have moved every 6 months.
I now live in a hostel. I have left uni as I could not afford rent and food at the same time and my sight was getting worse. Also I was in hospital a lot due to the fact my landlord would not deal with mould on the ceiling. I could not find a private landlord to accept my GUIDE DOG Layla (4 year old black Labrador cross golden retriever) was not a pet or to get them to not charge me extra to let her live with me. My “eyes” has 4 legs and a tail but they just see a dog. Not my freedom.
I am the invisible homeless. No council flats for under 25s in the area.
Nowhere to go except a hostel or the streets. I am the lucky one – I have a hostel place.
Charlotte And Layla

We hope to be chatting with Charlotte again soon, and are delighted that she is willing to share with you.

And if you would like to look at the goodies we sell to support homeless outreach, you will find them on this link...